Today's guest post is courtesy of Liz Ekakoro @_ekaks ( https://twitter.com/_ekaks ) . Find some of her work on http://diasporamessenger.com/author/liz/ 🙂 Enjoy the read.... The Mentor He is a sophomore or a senior student in the university. He can't wait for the freshas to come. He is a "mentor." Will select the prettiest or most... Continue Reading →
DATING 101: 20 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW
"Men should still suck it up, grow a pair and ask a girl out! Not text or chat her up, but a real face-to-face-risking-rejection good old asking a girl out"
HOSTEL CHRONICLES: Rich Boyfriend Wanted
It’s Sunday morning. Most ladies in the hostel are busy preparing for church. I would probably be coming back from morning mass around this time on normal Sundays were it not for the lazy bug that bit me. Been stacking laundry for the past 2 weeks; each day I woke up with the intention to... Continue Reading →
Choices…
*** Choices. We make them every single day, from the time we wake up to the time we go to bed. The freedom of choice is a fundamental human right enshrined in the constitution. The only thing that distinguishes us from other animals is the human ability to discern and make choices based on what... Continue Reading →
Telltale Breakup signs
Relationships are awesome. You become engulfed in the love and company of another person, you are genuinely happy and satisfied. But as with all good things, they eventually come to an end. Break ups are dreadful, especially those that you didn’t see coming. You are left pondering why in heaven’s name he/she left you? But... Continue Reading →
Space In a Relationship
Relationships. They are supposed to be sweet, rosy, happy and satisfying. You dream of dating a man who’s always at your beck and call, a man who will drop by with chocolates and a bottle of wine. His free time is dedicated towards taking care of your needs. He sends flowers to your place of... Continue Reading →
Ladies: How to Keep Your Man…
Only a caring girlfriend will call the girls who text him at 11pm and tell them to back-off
Reasons not to date a Double Decker Warrior
Everyone loves the idea of being in a relationship; the comfort of having someone who’s always at your disposal seems like a good idea. Every young girl imagines that once they start dating, the guy will go all Alejandro on her, buying her flowers and taking her to expensive restaurants without a budget limit. While... Continue Reading →
LADIES, HOW TO SECURE A VALENTINE’S DATE : DARKSKIN EDITION
Dear fellow Darkskinned sisters, it is high time we took it upon ourselves to end the tirade of our Lightskinned sisters’ reign on Valentine’s Day. Every year, we are the ones without dates, flowers or chocolate. As a result we have to bear the humiliating experience of listening to other people’s Valentine’s escapades. Well, all that... Continue Reading →
THE FRIENDZONE MANUAL : INTRODUCTION
Last night I read a piece dubbed “The Real Housewives of Campus” by a female blogger on BlogSpot (www.vehlmedia.blogspot.com) and I couldn’t help chuckling a bit intensely to myself. The manner in which the writer portrayed ladies who gave their boyfriends or “husbands” for that matter, “housewifely” benefits was too hilarious. In as much as... Continue Reading →
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