- If a woman doesn’t exhibit some interest in your advances, please quit pestering her. Stop with the “Why haven’t you replied my text yet you’re online” kind of nonsense. The un-replied texts, blue Whatsapp ticks and missed calls should have been proper indication of her lack of interest in you, but it seems some men suffer from chronic “insistiosis” syndrome. Learn to let go. Besides, there are millions of women out there; surely, one will like you back.
- Learn to deal with REJECTION. Most men do not know how to deal with rejection from a woman, I don’t know if it’s their egos or just serious mummy issues. Most become offended when a woman rejects or breaks up with them without good reason. They become vile and abusive for no reason. Well, life is not fair mister. Accept and move on. A woman does not need to issue a 5000 press statement to explain why she just doesn’t want you in her life. Kubaki matokeo
- Taking your woman on cheap dates: if you can’t afford a decent date, get creative and cook her tasty home-made meal. I’m sure she’d prefer that to being taken to some restaurant to take fries with soda. Nothing is worse than being taken out on a budget or to some dingy place with sweaty waiters.
- Snapbacks, skinny jeans and flashy tees. Unless you’re a Deejay, Rapper , Hip-hop artist or High school kid, please leave this dress code in 2014. Especially if you’re above 21 years old. I don’t need to explain this but it’s childish really.
- Trolling and insulting women on social media. I don’t know what kind of daddy or mummy issues would drive a man to insult a woman that they barely know on social media. It seems fun and all to troll but women see, and they judge. Only cowardly men insult women. I’m sure your mothers taught you better. Leave this Neanderthal behaviour in 2014.
- Irresponsible drinking and recklessness. So you like your drinks and you love to party. Fine, do it in moderation. Yes, it’s your money and all but have mercy on your liver. And should you decide to drink yourself silly, please do not be nuisance unto the rest of us. Partying once in a while is cool, but it gets boring after a while. Know your bounderies.
- Take care of your body. Keep Fit! I know African men take pride in their kitambis, but some have gone overboard. Your girlfriends and wives are suffering. I know that nyamchom is there to be eaten but for goodness sake make friends with the gym. Nothing is more sexy than a man who takes care of himself. Keep the flab away in 2015. For your own health’s sake.
- The Nisaidie/nishikie/Niokolee mentality. You are a man for heaven’s sake. You are supposed to be the key provider. How will you ever be responsible if all you ever do is depend on other people. Learn to cater for your own cab fare, alcohol and food in 2015. Do not be that man that’s ever operating on debts
- Rudeness and vulgar talk. I don’t know what bothers some men but they are just plain rude. It could be that you’re psychologically disturbed and are going through some issues, but please do not project those issues unto the rest of us. Learn to be polite in your speech. Vulgarity in a man is a total turn off.
- Keep Time. This is rather obvious but as a man it is your responsibility to always be the punctual one when you’re going out on a date with you other half. Never keep her waiting, that’s her God-given right as woman. And you have to cancel plans you’d made earlier for whatever reason, please do not do so last minute. Nothing vexes a woman more than arriving early for a date, waiting a whole hour then getting the “sorry babe, I won’t be able to make it” text. Style up!
Canduh 
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